Beating Depression

Almost a year ago, I finally found myself in a better place after many years of dealing with depression and I still work on myself every day. Continue reading “Beating Depression”

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Introducing Life, Upside-Down & Sideways

A few things about me:

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7 Things Polyamorous People Are Tired Of Hearing

My utopia is to live in a big house with my OWN ROOM, with several other people who have their own rooms, but we all pitch in with household things, and share the other living spaces.

The Ronald McDonald house is like my dream house.  😛  Lots of bedrooms with their own bathrooms in different wings in the house (and balconies–RMH doesn’t have those),  maybe even like the Bangor one, there would be a few connected mini-apartments that can be closed and private or opened up to one large space.

There’s a huge laundry room on each floor, library/computer area central to all the wings upstairs, upstairs and downstairs livingrooms, smaller corner nooks and offices around the house, a large double kitchen (two fridges, stoves, etc) and cafe-style diningroom downstairs with sliding glass doors going out to a monstrous deck. RMH doesn’t have one but a pool would be nice. I would also prefer if this house were on the beach but not in a remote spot, I still want to be close to everything. 

Oh, and the people. Right.  😛  It’s a group of maybe 6-8 people who just all “click”.  A and B are a couple. A and E are also couple.  B and I are together. I is also with C and C is also with D. B and E aren’t a couple but sometimes humor A’s threesome fantasies. 😛

Other than the distinct matchups, all of them are very close friends, soul mates even,  and might be spending time with each other in any combination for dinner, movies, vacations, other activities, shopping, cooking, other chores. As couples, A and E like to go to concerts together and C Anna D along, while B doesn’t really like concerts so B and A go bowling  and B and I like karate. Etc.  Etc.  Kind of like “Friends” but more mixed up and more sex.

A and B will  sometimes sleep together, or in their own rooms alone, or with their other partner(s) or with a nonsexual partner just up all night talking, watching Netflix, cuddling.

Or maybe more happens occasionally. Maybe new feelings emerge. Maybe they all have one big orgy in one of the common rooms that spills out onto the deck under the stars on a clear, warm, breezy, moonlit night. Eh-hem.

Another good perk with all of this is there would always be someone to cook, do dishes, babysit Sarah, etc., etc. without any one or two people becoming  overwhelmed.

Ah, dreams.

The orgy stuff probably wouldn’t happen…  At least as written anyway. In a house that big, there’s plenty of room though.

My other utopia living arrangement is completely by myself. No other humans or other animals whatsoever for miles and miles.  Depends on the day. 😛